NLP and Neurosemantics :: Re: Social being. (reply)

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PleiadianHealer wrote at 31 Oct 2011 10:01 AM GMT: </span> Bebop wrote: Hi. I don't post here, but I look at the forum from time to time.
I would like some help.

i am a guy. when i was a teenager i had very bad acne for many years, and was very skinny. i had self image issues, confidence issues, was shy, and was bullied often. i am 22 now. most of the body issues have gone, i am comfortable with the way i look. but, the feelings i had are still lingering. it was a menacing time, my teenage years. i have trouble in social situations. when i am at home, i can talk a lot, joke around, laugh and smile. but when i am outside i feel very constricted. mentally and physically. i may act a little awkward and stiff.
although i have a lot going on for me career wise as a musician, i am not happy that i can't have a proper full life. people tell me i am very attractive, but thats nothing when i have issues with holding on a conversation or have social issues.i havent had a girlfriend and i dont have as many friends as i would like.

what can i do? i really want help. i dont really want to "wear" items, but to actually clear these out myself from the source. i want to be fun again, and be that guy i really want to start my life again. (nlp, eft, hamr?)
please guys i hope you can help. <span class="postbody">

In addition to all the other advice you got in this thread, I would like to suggest an approach that most people don't think of, but could have amazing results in your life. Asking your guaridian angel for help with the situations you just talked about, (making new friends, finding a gf...etc), can be a very viable way to make your life better. Your guardian angel, just like all people's guardian angels can help you in wonderful ways.

I have a thread going on this already, you might want to read through it:

http://www.xtrememind.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=5163

The way you ask your guardian angel (GA) for help is to request most benevolent outcomes (MBO's). Since this may seem a bit strange to you, let me give you an example, and you can say these statements outloud, all you need to do is say them once, which will give your GA permission to help you.

"I request the most benevolent outcome for my guardian angel to help me make new friends, please have this whole process be very easy and effortless for me and also filled with joy, and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect...thank you"

"I request the most benevolent outcome to find the PERFECT girlfriend, who treats me really great and who's very attractive and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect....thank you"

These are just two things I can think of off the top of my head from what you said in your first post. It would be a really good idea to go to Tom Moore's website, the man who wrote the book on MBO's and read through it so you get all the background information:

http://www.thegentlewaybook.com/index.htm

OK good luck, you should see things happening eventually with this method of requesting things from your GA.

PH
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