NLP and Neurosemantics :: Social being.

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Bebop wrote at 31 Oct 2011 02:53 AM GMT: Hi. I don't post here, but I look at the forum from time to time.
I would like some help.

i am a guy. when i was a teenager i had very bad acne for many years, and was very skinny. i had self image issues, confidence issues, was shy, and was bullied often. i am 22 now. most of the body issues have gone, i am comfortable with the way i look. but, the feelings i had are still lingering. it was a menacing time, my teenage years. i have trouble in social situations. when i am at home, i can talk a lot, joke around, laugh and smile. but when i am outside i feel very constricted. mentally and physically. i may act a little awkward and stiff.
although i have a lot going on for me career wise as a musician, i am not happy that i can't have a proper full life. people tell me i am very attractive, but thats nothing when i have issues with holding on a conversation or have social issues.i havent had a girlfriend and i dont have as many friends as i would like.

what can i do? i really want help. i dont really want to "wear" items, but to actually clear these out myself from the source. i want to be fun again, and be that guy i really want to start my life again. (nlp, eft, hamr?)
please guys i hope you can help.

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