cocomilo wrote at
18 Aug 2011 09:15 PM GMT: Ugh this is horrible advice HS. Why play stupid games? Any female will see through this charade. Do you even want to be with a female who will be attracted to this?
The only way you could get away with being a jerk is if you have the incredible looks/charisma of a movie/rock/sport star etc or you have supreme confidence.
Just be yourself and if you don't like that try to improve. Important get a sense of humour - make her laugh, be a fun person to be with, don't be desperate, stop moaning about your last girlfriend, smile (visit the dentist regularly and use breath freshener), good grooming - spoil yourself every 4 weeks and get your hair cut, beard trimmed (but preferably removed) a manicure, work out at the gym, get clothes that FIT. Be nice, but not desperate nice, be caring, be interested in her, stop boasting how good you are and take a genuine interest in her.
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