headwall wrote at
15 Oct 2010 01:38 AM GMT: </span>
laptop123 wrote: dunno if headwall is still reading this post.
when i looked over this, a voice in my head kept saying that headwall has been thinking things in the line of 'i will change' (as an example) instead of 'i am changing' or 'i have changed'...
simple law of attraction mistake it seems?...
dunno... the voices said it, not me! don't shoot the messenger <span class="postbody">
What's up laptop! That is actually fantastic advice, something at the time I wish I had understood better.
I'm now getting to the point where I get the idea of how my attitude of how things are vs. how I want them to be needs to be closed so mentally there is no gap, the things I want should for me be happening now, not tomorrow or next month.
What my problem was, and I continue to work on this, is that lusting for results keeps away the changes I so desire, needing for it to happen creates an expectation that if unfulfilled, disappointment sets in and I give up when just a little more work is required and the calm expectation that things are changing, without needing them to. I'm getting closer to this point now. Reading many of the threads here have helped me significantly.
I think the desire for instant gratification is the biggest factor in this type of issue.
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